CURRENT PRESENTATIONS & SEMINARS LISTED BELOW

 

1.        1.    Living with an emotionally unavailable mate

      2.    Integrating Faith Based Principles with Clinical Mental Health Issues:

                A Christian Approach for Improving Treatment Outcomes

      3.    Developing healthy relationships

      4.    Finding the Joy of Christ in a Hurting World

 

Ideal for:  Therapists, marriage and family counselors, psychologists,              clergy, general public, mental health clinics, church groups 

Cost:        To be arranged

Availability:   Advance scheduling

Length of presentation:  Hour, half day, or day long seminars (Pending topic)

 

Scan down to learn more about each presentation topic:

  

 

1.    Living with an emotionally unavailable mate

 

Program Description:

When one partner in a marriage is emotionally unavailable or distant, their mate exists in a world of loneliness and disappointment, desperately looking to therapists to fix the problem.  Traditional therapy based on talking about feelings is an ineffective intervention for emotionally-suppressed clients who are unable to identify or disclose emotions during the therapy session.  Treating emotionally distant marriages typically results in an unsuccessful therapeutic outcome with the unemotional mate dropping out of treatment.  This can leave the therapist in the frustrating position of coping with the spouse who feels helpless and believes therapy has failed.   Treating marriages where one partner is emotionally distant can be one of the most challenging hurdles therapists face -- until now.

Craig A. Miller, MSW, CSW, ACSW, therapist and author, shares his systematic approach and the latest medicinal remedies to successfully treat couples in emotionally distant relationships by making drastic changes in how each mate emotionally and physically relate to restore the love, respect, and fulfillment for both partners. 

Seminar participants will learn how to:

  1. Recognize characteristics of an unemotional and codependent mate 

  2. Quickly develop a non-threatening and emotionally supportive rapport that allows the therapist to successfully engage the unwilling partner in therapy

  3. Empower the emotional mate to change how they respond to their distant spouse

  4. Step-by-step therapeutic techniques designed to break down emotional    denial and unlock the unemotional client’s heart to produce a more successful treatment outcome

  5. Utilize the latest medicinal remedies to assist in unblocking and eliminating          suppressed or manifesting emotions

 Learning Objectives:

Participants completing this course will be able to:

  1. Describe how a person becomes emotionally unavailable

  2. Identify characteristics of the unemotional/emotionally suppressed client

  3. Identify characteristics of a codependent partner in an emotionally distant relationship

  4. Outline how the unemotional mate produces dysfunction in the marriage

  5. Describe how the unemotional man differs from the unemotional woman

  6. Utilize techniques for empowering the emotional mate to:

a.      Understand the mind and behaviors of their unemotional mate

b.      Change how they respond emotionally and physically to their unemotional mate

c.      Learn how NOT to live with their mate’s stubborn and selfish attitudes

d.      Learn how to change their emotionally distant mate, without losing their own heart and mind in the process

e.      Recognize warning signs for escalation of mind games and abuse

f.        Cope effective with mind games, defensiveness, and blaming

g.      Make radical changes when the unemotional mate is unwilling to change

  1. Utilize strategies for changing the unemotional mate:

a.      Quickly develop rapport that encourages clients to willingly engage in treatment

b.      Creating motivation to change

c.      Getting the emotionally unavailable mate to emotionally relate

d.      Getting an unwilling and stubborn, emotionally distant mate to change

  1. Encourage increased respect and emotional expression within the relationship:

a.      Obstacles to emotional closeness

b.      Communicating without arguing and defensiveness

c.      Redefining healthy relationships for the emotionally distant couple

 

2.     Integrating Faith Based Principles with Clinical Mental Health Issues:

                A Christian Approach for Improving Treatment Outcomes

   

   Learning Objectives:

 

  Faith in Clinical Practice

How faith impacts clinical practice

Importance of faith and the healing process

Origins and impact of our belief system

Stages of faith development

 

• Faith Principles for professional growth

Faith as a foundation for personal growth

Strengthening professional life

When faith is discouraged where you work

Making a difference in your work setting

 

• Interweaving Faith in Christian and non-Christian settings

Professional practice standards regarding religion and spirituality in the work place

Learn about your client’s faith respectfully

How to open the door to a client’s faith

Using faith/prayer as a mode of treatment

Case examples provided

 

• Clinical Effectiveness of Prayer

Research regarding prayer

Using prayer respectively

How to open the door to use prayer

Using prayer to improve outcomes

Reasons why prayers are hindered

How to hear God’s “small voice”

Prayer support for the clinician

Case examples provided

 

• Clinical Effectiveness of Forgiveness

Research regarding forgiveness

How unforgiveness impedes healing

Turn around an unforgiving heart

Techniques to forgive self, God, and others

 

• When Religion Becomes Hurtful

Characteristics of toxic faith

Characteristics of abusive churches

Origin of toxic faith and religious shame

Distorting God and God’s Word

Damage to your heart, mind, and faith

Interventions for healing

Case examples provided

·   Integrate Faith in Treatment

Struggling with expressing emotions

How suppressed emotions cause

emotional and physical illness

Releasing unhealthy emotions

Learning to express healthy emotions

Techniques to improve communication

Case examples provided

Uncover past emotional issues

Steps to healing damaged emotions

Using healing prayers

Case examples provided

 

• Building Positive Attitudes and Self-worth

Creating strong relationships with clients

Reframe self perception

Motivating client to stay in treatment

 

• Spiritual Battles

Identifying spiritual battles

How to deal with spiritual battles

Difference between clinical depression and spiritual oppression

Case examples provided

 

• Dealing with Faith Misconceptions

How faith misconceptions impede counseling

Earthly/Heavenly parent principles

Origin of misconceptions

Working with misconceptions:

I am not acceptable or not good enough

God is someone to fear

If I use my feelings I am not relying on my faith.

                         

3.  Developing healthy relationships

  

   In this seminar you will learn:

1. How does a man and woman communicate his and her feelings differently?

2. How to communicate feelings when you are hurt and angry.

3. How much do my feelings affect the ability to find and maintain healthy

   relationships.  (Why do I have a hard time getting close to people and to God?)

4. How to express your feelings in a relationship that discourages your feelings.

6. What is disrespect and how do you handle disrespect from others.

7. How to encourage your spouse to communicate their feelings.

8. Maintaining healthy relationships – spouse, friends, children, and God.

9. Other selected topics of your choice.

 

 

4. Finding the Joy of Christ in a Hurting World

Overcoming the struggle to feel good about life by discovering the love, peace, and joy that Christ offers!

 

   Ideal for:  Church pulpit supply for AM or PM worship services          

This multimedia presentation gives a message of hope and spiritual healing through scripture, music, congregation participation, visual props, and helpful techniques.  Learn to overcome the fear to say what you want, let go of emotional hurts, find satisfaction in relationships (even with God), find the joy of Christ, and feel good about yourself!   

Hear valuable insights, powerful case testimonies, inspiring scriptures, and helpful techniques to overcome the fear to say what you want, let go of emotional hurts, find satisfaction in relationships, find the joy of Christ, and feel good about yourself!  This inspirational message based on God’s Word is for teens through older adults who desire to find victory from the daily struggles of life to experience the love, peace, and joy that God has to offer.

  

   In this seminar you will learn:

   Learning how to feel good about life and experience the inner joy that

   Jesus has to offer?

1. Why our God given emotions are so important. 

2. What would happen if I don’t express my feelings? 

3. Or can holding in feelings over time be harmful to my emotional/physical health?

4. If God gave us our emotions, what stops us from feeling them? 

5. How does our past influence us with our reactions?  (Reactions of anger, fear, anxiety, or depression)

6. As a Christian, are we suppose to have anger, fear, or anxiety? 

(Some people believe you are not depending on God if you experience those feelings.) 

7. How can we change to find and maintain the inner joy that God really wants us to experience?