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CURRENT
PRESENTATIONS & SEMINARS LISTED BELOW
1.
1.
Living with an emotionally unavailable mate
2.
Integrating Faith Based
Principles with Clinical Mental Health Issues:
A Christian Approach for Improving Treatment Outcomes
3.
Developing healthy relationships
4.
Finding
the Joy of Christ in a Hurting World
Ideal
for: Therapists, marriage
and family counselors, psychologists,
clergy, general public, mental health clinics, church groups
Cost:
To be arranged
Length
of presentation:
Hour, half day, or day long seminars (Pending topic)
Scan
down to learn more about each presentation topic:
1.
Living with an emotionally
unavailable mate
Program Description:
When one partner in a marriage is emotionally unavailable or distant,
their mate exists in a world of loneliness and disappointment,
desperately looking to therapists to fix the problem. Traditional
therapy based on talking about feelings is an ineffective intervention
for emotionally-suppressed clients who are unable to identify or
disclose emotions during the therapy session. Treating emotionally
distant marriages typically results in an unsuccessful therapeutic
outcome with the unemotional mate dropping out of treatment. This can
leave the therapist in the frustrating position of coping with the
spouse who feels helpless and believes therapy has failed. Treating
marriages where one partner is emotionally distant can be one of the
most challenging hurdles therapists face -- until now.
Craig A.
Miller, MSW, CSW, ACSW, therapist and author, shares his systematic
approach and the latest medicinal remedies
to
successfully treat couples in emotionally distant relationships by
making drastic changes in how each mate emotionally and physically
relate to restore the love, respect, and fulfillment for both partners.
Seminar
participants will learn how to:
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Recognize
characteristics of an unemotional and codependent mate
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Quickly
develop a non-threatening and emotionally supportive rapport that
allows the therapist to successfully engage the unwilling partner in
therapy
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Empower
the emotional mate to change how they respond to their distant spouse
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Step-by-step therapeutic techniques designed to break down emotional
denial and unlock the unemotional client’s heart to produce a more
successful treatment outcome
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Utilize
the latest medicinal remedies to assist in unblocking and eliminating
suppressed or manifesting emotions
Learning
Objectives:
Participants completing this course will be able to:
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Describe
how a person becomes emotionally unavailable
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Identify
characteristics of the unemotional/emotionally suppressed client
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Identify
characteristics of a codependent partner in an emotionally distant
relationship
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Outline
how the unemotional mate produces dysfunction in the marriage
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Describe
how the unemotional man differs from the unemotional woman
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Utilize
techniques for empowering the emotional mate to:
a.
Understand the mind and behaviors of their unemotional mate
b.
Change how they respond emotionally and physically to their
unemotional mate
c.
Learn how NOT to live with their mate’s stubborn and selfish
attitudes
d.
Learn how to change their emotionally distant mate, without
losing their own heart and mind in the process
e.
Recognize warning signs for escalation of mind games and abuse
f.
Cope effective with mind games, defensiveness, and blaming
g.
Make radical changes when the unemotional mate is unwilling to
change
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Utilize
strategies for changing the unemotional mate:
a.
Quickly develop rapport that encourages clients to willingly
engage in treatment
b.
Creating motivation to change
c.
Getting the emotionally unavailable mate to emotionally relate
d.
Getting an unwilling and stubborn, emotionally distant mate to
change
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Encourage
increased respect and emotional expression within the relationship:
a.
Obstacles to emotional closeness
b.
Communicating without arguing and defensiveness
c.
Redefining healthy relationships for the emotionally distant
couple
2.
Integrating
Faith Based Principles with Clinical Mental Health Issues:
A Christian Approach for Improving Treatment Outcomes
Learning
Objectives:
Faith in Clinical Practice
How
faith impacts clinical practice
Importance of faith and the healing process
Origins
and impact of our belief system
Stages
of faith development
•
Faith Principles for professional growth
Faith
as a foundation for personal growth
Strengthening professional life
When
faith is discouraged where you work
Making
a difference in your work setting
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Interweaving Faith in Christian and non-Christian settings
Professional practice standards regarding religion and spirituality in
the work place
Learn
about your client’s faith respectfully
How to
open the door to a client’s faith
Using
faith/prayer as a mode of treatment
Case
examples provided
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Clinical Effectiveness of Prayer
Research regarding prayer
Using
prayer respectively
How to
open the door to use prayer
Using
prayer to improve outcomes
Reasons
why prayers are hindered
How to
hear God’s “small voice”
Prayer
support for the clinician
Case
examples provided
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Clinical Effectiveness of Forgiveness
Research regarding forgiveness
How
unforgiveness impedes healing
Turn
around an unforgiving heart
Techniques to forgive self, God, and others
• When
Religion Becomes Hurtful
Characteristics of toxic faith
Characteristics of abusive churches
Origin
of toxic faith and religious shame
Distorting God and God’s Word
Damage
to your heart, mind, and faith
Interventions for healing
Case
examples provided
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Integrate Faith in
Treatment
Struggling with expressing emotions
How
suppressed emotions cause
emotional and physical illness
Releasing unhealthy emotions
Learning to express healthy emotions
Techniques to improve communication
Case
examples provided
Uncover
past emotional issues
Steps
to healing damaged emotions
Using
healing prayers
Case
examples provided
•
Building Positive Attitudes and Self-worth
Creating strong relationships with clients
Reframe
self perception
Motivating client to stay in treatment
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Spiritual Battles
Identifying spiritual battles
How to
deal with spiritual battles
Difference between clinical depression and spiritual oppression
Case
examples provided
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Dealing with Faith Misconceptions
How
faith misconceptions impede counseling
Earthly/Heavenly parent principles
Origin
of misconceptions
Working
with misconceptions:
I am
not acceptable or not good enough
God is
someone to fear
If I
use my feelings I am not relying on my faith.
3.
Developing healthy relationships
In this seminar you
will learn:
1.
How does a man and woman communicate his and her feelings differently?
2.
How to communicate feelings when you are
hurt and angry.
3.
How
much do my feelings affect the ability to find and maintain healthy
relationships. (Why do I
have a hard time getting close to people and to God?)
4. How
to express your feelings in a relationship
that discourages your feelings.
6.
What is disrespect and how do you handle disrespect from others.
7.
How to encourage your spouse to
communicate their feelings.
8.
Maintaining healthy relationships – spouse, friends, children, and God.
9. Other
selected topics of your choice.
4.
Finding the Joy of Christ in a Hurting World
Overcoming
the struggle to feel good about life by discovering the love, peace,
and joy that Christ offers!
Ideal for: Church
pulpit supply for AM or PM worship services
This
multimedia presentation gives a message of hope and spiritual healing
through scripture, music, congregation participation, visual props, and
helpful techniques. Learn to overcome the fear to say what you
want, let go of emotional hurts, find satisfaction in relationships
(even with God), find the joy of Christ, and feel good about yourself!
In this seminar you will learn:
Learning how to feel good about life and experience the inner joy that
Jesus has to offer?
1.
Why our God given emotions are so important.
2.
What would happen if I don’t express my feelings?
3.
Or can holding in feelings over time be harmful to my emotional/physical
health?
6.
As a
Christian, are we suppose to have anger, fear, or anxiety?
(Some
people believe you are not depending on God if you experience those
feelings.)
7.
How can we change to find and maintain the inner joy that God really
wants us to experience?
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